Yves - plugging module into a different loco and searching for using "Find Product" will not show anything, as the module has already been found and loaded into the HC. If you want to test the module's vitality you can plug it into another locomotive, and select the new module by going to the new locomotive that was created under the locomotive list.
It doesn't matter which way you have the speaker wires connected.
The only way I can think that the module would fry upon trying to move would be if one of the motor wires was incorrect. It shouldn't be the power wires as those had to have been correct for you to get as far as you did. When I say one of the motor wires, what I mean is that one of them may actually be wired to something else and not the motor. It makes no difference if you have the motor wires reversed....it'll just make the motor run backwards, but that's easily fixed by pressing a button on the HC.
I have had one module spontaneously fail. When I sent it back to Ring, they found there were 3 very small pieces of loose solder inside (not from me) and one of them must have caused a short and fried the board. They replaced it at no cost. If all else fails, I'm sure Ring will take care of you.
-Kevin